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TRIBUTE TO MRS. MARIE CARR

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Miss Becky Carr and Family

 

On behalf of my family and myself, I thank all of you for your prayers, thoughts and kindness during this difficult time.  It has been a great comfort to us knowing how much people cared for, thought of and loved my mom.  We have, and will continue to, enjoy reading all of the wonderful memories people have of her.  She was more then just an incredible teacher she was an amazing person. 

I’ll always be grateful for having the opportunity to work with her at St. Theresa School this past year.  I will never forget talking with her over lunch and sending our students to each others classrooms with little notes.  One of her favorite things to do was to tell some of the first graders to come down to my room and tell my class that “Mrs. Carr said Miss Carr is grounded”, for one reason or another!  She loved hearing the kids laugh and seeing the smiles on their faces. 

Even though she is not physically here with us anymore, she’ll continue to look over all of us and live on through all those whose lives she touched.  She will always be missed and will never be forgotten.  Thank you again for all of your kindness and generosity.  I know she is smiling down on all of us from her classroom in heaven.

Mrs. Margaret Barrett, STS Principal

 

 Just like you my heart is broken. We have lost one of the finest human beings that God put on this earth. We have lost a true friend. Although Marie is no longer physically here with us her spirit is definitely with us and in our school. We need to be strong for each other. We especially have to be strong for all of her students. I know you are all praying for her family. Please pray for our faculty and staff. I am here if you need me. My prayers are with all of you at this difficult, difficult time.
 

The Mooney Family

 

 This news comes as such a shock!!!  I heard the news this morning and I have been stunned all day long.  Marie was a fabulous woman that remembered everyone that she came in contact with.  She has made such an impact on the young children of St. Theresa's, Tori being one of them.  
Marie was one of the first interactions that I had at St. Theresa's and that has always stayed with me.  Our thoughts and prayers go out to Marie's family.  Our family is so blessed to have had the chance to know Marie.
 

The Terech Family

 

We are surprised & saddened by the loss of Mrs. Carr.
She was an especially patient, understanding and compassionate teacher. We will always remember her fondly.
May God grant her family strength, peace & comfort at this time & always. Mrs. Carr was a lovely lady with steadfast dedication to her profession and a profound sense of commitment to the children she taught.  

 

Kelly Leese (STS Class of 2005)

 

Nine years ago, I walked through the doors into Saint Theresa School on the first day of Kindergarten.  Mrs. Carr was my teacher.  What would Kindergarten be like?  Was Mrs. Carr nice?  What if this year would be boring?  All these questions going through my head were soon to be answered.  Kindergarten turned out to be awesome, Mrs. Carr was one of the best teachers I had, and the year was definitely not boring.  We dressed up as letters, learned to count, made new friends, and started walking the path towards Jesus.

Mrs. Carr has made such a lasting impression on my life and it will never fade.  As I leave STS to go onto high school, Mrs. Carr will be my guide.  She is a light of inspiration for me to push harder so I can be the best that I can be.  In everything she did, she put a huge amount of love and kindness.  She made the learning experience fun and exciting for all of her students.  I will never forget the influence she had or the hard work she gave to help her kindergarten classes.  Her spirit will always burn within us and all of the memories she gave will glow in our hearts forever.  Mrs. Carr was a true role model of Christ and helped us all in following the footsteps of Jesus.
 

Laura Musselman

 

When I think of Mrs. Carr, I can't help but smile, and there are so many reason why.  For us, she was our first real connection to the St. Theresa family.  We sent our first son to Kindergarten not really knowing anyone at the school.  She was so reassuring and approachable, always giving her phone number out in case of any questions or problems.  She had 3 of our 4 sons for Kindergarten and she always made it known to me how much she enjoyed them.  She seemed to have a "sixth sense" with the kids and always noticed their positive qualities and their different personalities.  She always had them pegged!

Being one of her room mothers made this year special for me.  She made sure I knew that my time spent was greatly appreciated.  The last time we talked to Mrs. Carr was at this year's Kindergarten Graduation.  As we were leaving my son Erik was discussing his plans for "Principal for a Day" with Mrs. Carr and Mrs. W.  The three of them had decided that Erik would "fire" them just for the day so Mrs. Carr and Mrs. W could take the day to go shopping.  As we left that night, I gave her a big hug and said "I really don't have to say goodbye because we still have Matthew to get through Kindergarten."

St. Ts just won't seem the same without Mrs. Carr in her classroom.  We all hope her family can find comfort in knowing how much she was loved.
 

The Petrillo Family

 

My son Nicky was in Mrs. Carr's  and Mrs. W's class 7 years ago and he was to say the least, a bit of a handful.  At the time we were just beginning to understand Nicky's ADHD and Aspergers Syndrome. Mrs. Carr said the most wonderful things to me about Nicky at the end of that year that I will always remember. Well it wasn't exactly what she said but the fact that she thought Nicky was special and that he made her laugh even when she was trying to discipline him.  Basically, she "got" him, she understood his unique personality and looked at it in a positive way rather than a negative way. Her wonderful insight helped me look at Nicky differently and gave us all a positive outlook for his future in school.  I'm sure she saw each and every one of her students the same way and I'm grateful that Nicky had the opportunity to to have Mrs. Carr as his teacher.
 

Lori Swidler and Family

 

How blessed we are to have had Mrs. Carr teach the children of St. Theresa's!  What an amazing lady she was...our school will never be the same, and our hearts will always feel heavy in her absence. 

It's easy to remember all the wonderful things she did for our kids, and how she made school so enjoyable for them! How they loved Transportation Day, Letter Day, all the special "theme" days, their Fifth Grade buddies, Zoo America, etc.  She even had a sheet cake in celebration of Dr. Seuss' birthday!  Whatever she did, she gave everything such effort and she unselfishly took a large amount of her personal time to make her students remarkable scrapbooks as a remembrance of their Kindergarten year. 

We will always have wonderful memories of her and of all the kindness and love she gave our children.  We will be praying for her dear family, that they feel peace in knowing that she is in the arms of our dear Lord. 

"But our homeland is in heaven, and we are waiting for our Savior, Jesus, to come from heaven.  By his power to rule all things, he will change our simple bodies and make them like His own glorious body." Philippians 3:20-21.

 

Roxane Cudahy

 

Angels are everywhere at Saint Theresa School!  Mrs. Carr will always be our 1st and most beloved Angel at Saint Theresa School.

This year we sent our first daughter Maura to kindergarten and it was very hard to let go.  What a comfort and gift it was having Mrs. Carr and Mrs. W. as her teachers.  I thanked God everyday Maura was at school for her wonderful teachers.  If I couldn't be with Maura,  I came to feel as if they were the next best thing.  Not only were they wonderful teachers, I knew they loved Maura and I felt such a comfort in knowing they took great care of her.

I have saved all the notes Mrs. Carr sent home of all the beautiful things she said about Maura- the same things I love about her.  I intend to keep them forever so Maura can read them and remember her love for Mrs. Carr also.  She truly touched our lives in such a special way.  Not only do we have the wonderful scrapbook Mrs. Carr made, we have a beautiful picture of Mrs. Carr and Mrs. W with Maura from graduation.  We will keep them and Mrs. Carr's memory close to our hearts forever.

With very heavy hearts, we will miss her dearly.  Every year we send a child into kindergarten,  we will miss her dearly.  With very grateful hearts, we will continue to thank God for the gift he has given us in Mrs. Carr and continue to pray for her family and her friends at Saint Theresa School.  God certainly has blessed us with a very, very special Angel.
 

Jacki Winieski - STS 4th Grader

 

Mrs. Carr was a great teacher and friend through and after my kindergarten. I used to love visiting her after school, in first grade.  I'll never forget how much fun she was to be around.  I will pray for her daughter and the family and I'll miss her a whole lot.
 

The Arnold Family

 

We were deeply saddened by the news that Mrs. Carr had passed away.  How blessed and fortunate we are, however, that two of our three children had the opportunity to experience a year in kindergarten with Mrs. Carr.  We have many great memories of these two years and we will treasure them forever.  The priceless scrapbooks will certainly help us with these memories.

When we decided to educate our children at St. Theresa School, we were informed by many people that we would love Mrs. Carr and Mrs. W.  as kindergarten teachers.  How true, how true!  Mrs. Carr had many special gifts as a teacher.  She was patient, kind, understanding, loving and had a unique gift of recognizing the special qualities of each student.  She was also good at relaying this information to the child and his/her parents.  She put her heart and soul into educating and touching the lives of our children. Mrs. Carr was a successful and positive role model at St. Theresa's.

As we discussed the death of Mrs. Carr with our children, Alexander and Ava told us several great memories.  Alexander loved stopping in her classroom just to give her a hug. (daily, I'm sure)  Since Alexander had Miss Carr this year, he was a messenger sometimes between the two classes.  He loved this because both teachers made him feel very special. (He probably grounded Miss Carr at some point!)

Ava told us that one day this past year, they were getting ready to go to mass.  Austin Gilbertson was sharply dressed and Mrs. Carr said, "Austin, are you taking us all out to dinner?  I sure hope you brought your credit card!"  Ava was all smiles and giggles as she told us this story.  Mrs. Carr had a great sense of humor with the children.

We will miss Mrs. Carr dearly, but realize that her spirit will continue to live on in our hearts with these fond memories. We will continue to pray for the Carr family and the St. Theresa family.

Heaven certainly has been blessed with the presence of a wonderful new teacher!
 

Alexa Barr - 4A

 

It wasn't just that Mrs.Carr was a wonderful kindergarten teacher, but she was also as we all know a wonderful person. She was my kindergarten teacher and I hated seeing her go. She taught us so many important things. She was the best kindergarten teacher I could imagine. I was heartbroken. I will always remember her and remember how great a teacher and especially how great a person she was. I loved her and always will.

 

Diane Weltmer

 

A wonderful person, a wonderful teacher, Marie will be missed by all of us at STS.

 

 

The Lund Family

 

 When you think of all the reasons we send our kids to St Theresa's it is hard not to think of Mrs. Carr.  She was one of those special people that made all of our kids feel loved.  She was a great teacher but a better person.  We still look at that wonderful scrapbook that she makes every year for every child, it is a memory we will cherish forever.  Rest in Peace Mrs Carr and look down with pride on all of the children you helped mold.  
 

Diane Cole

 

The loss of Mrs. Carr comes as such a shock, and it also brings great sorrow to my family.  We feel fortunate that our son was blessed to have her as his kindergarten teacher.  He will always have memories of her in the beautiful pictures she took, the wonderful projects they did as a class, and priceless scrap book that was compiled recounting that year's events.  He will always hold her dear to his heart.

We are praying for those loved ones that she has left behind in order to join our Lord.  She will be dearly missed.  Heaven now has a wonderful kindergarten teacher.
 

The Leese Family

 

Mrs. Carr was a wonderful person who had a positive impact on so many lives. She made learning an exciting and fun experience for her kindergarten classes, and her soft heart for the children was always very obvious. You could feel the love she put into teaching everyone's children. For these and so many other reasons, she will be deeply missed. Our heartfelt sympathy goes out to both her family and the St. Theresa family.
 

Rhonda Houseman

 

I remember when Marie joined our faculty.  The little ones took to her right away.  That was the way Marie was, loving and giving, and children recognize these qualities much quicker than adults.  I remember the kindness that Marie showed to me as a teacher when I was fortunate enough to teach all three of her children.  I remember her as a supportive faculty member who was always ready to pitch in to help on anything.  Most of all, I remember her as a friend who was always willing to listen and to never judge.  Marie will live on in my heart.  She was truly the spirit of St. Theresa because of all the "little" things that she did to help everyone.  Marie will definitely be missed, but never forgotten.
 

BJ Meagher

 

I heard of Marie's death Tuesday evening and was deeply saddened.  As I tried to sleep, I kept thinking of the book, "ALL I REALLY NEED TO KNOW I LEARNED IN KINDERGARTEN."
I have heard this book referenced for High School and College graduations.  These educators know that the successful High School or College graduates get there because of the start they received in Kindergarten.  They totally miss that the person instilled with that responsibility is one of the most important people in our child's life.  Marie was given the awesome
responsibility of taking our children and teaching them everything they need to know and she was the best!  She quietly and without fanfare worked diligently to bring out the best in our children.  The scrapbooks that she and Mrs. W. made for each and every child contain memories for our children that are priceless.  They were made with love and that is what made Marie so special, the love she shared with her students.  

Although my children are sad and will miss Mrs. Carr, they have been talking about all the things they learned and the special moments that they will remember.  All these memories come with a smile.  Although Marie will be watching over us from
another place, she is alive forever in the hearts of her family, friends and students.

 

Diane Weltmer

 

Marie was a wonderful person and a wonderful teacher, she will be missed by all of us at STS.
 

Terry Brown

 

Our loss of Mrs. Carr is a great one to bear.  Mrs. Carr had an impact on the school community that is impossible to measure.  Being the kindergarten teacher for our children, she was the "gateway" for us into St. Theresa's.  Without a doubt, it was our kindergarten experience that made us want to stay.  My heart aches for her family and for her colleagues at the school.  I keep thinking about what my son said--"The happy part of this is that Mrs. Carr is definitely in heaven.  I don't think Mrs. Carr died with any sins on her soul." Amen to that.  We will never forget her.
 

Mrs. Brenda Skinner

 

As I think of Marie, I am at a loss for words.  Tears roll down my cheeks.  We will truly miss her.  The children who had the experience of being in her kindergarten class were blessed with an amazing teacher who looked at each individual child, helping them to grow and learn.  For us parents, she was so open and helpful.  Everyone knows, that Kindergarten parents are the most nervous and pesky of all parents, but she was always there for us.  As a colleague, she offered advise, and was there to help lift my spirits if I was ever having one of those days.  What a wonderful woman.  I will miss our lunches together.  I will miss her smile, her laugh, her stories.  We will all miss her so much.
 

The Stipe Family

 

Both of my children had Mrs. Carr for kindergarten.  The loss of Mrs. Carr came to a shock for them.  They had nothing but good memories of their kindergarten year.  Mrs. Carr gave them a positive feeling for school that they still have today.  We were all blessed to have known Marie Carr.  Now Heaven has been blessed.

The Hamlin Family

 

Over 11 years ago we went to an information night at Saint Theresa’s.  We had already done research into our various options.  With our family’s unique situation we had thought long and hard about which school to send our kids to.  After the presentation, we knew our decision was the right one.  We cornered Sister Bernadette and Mrs. Carr and explained our situation to them.  We talked about all of our kids and their needs.  We said that we wanted all of the kids in the same school.  We asked if Saint Theresa School could provide for our kids.  These two wonderful women both said one simple word – “Yes.”  With that, and many years of hard work, expertise, creativity, love, and prayers, my four children have gotten a good, solid Catholic education.  Thank you, Mrs. Carr, for believing in our children, for believing in your teaching skills, for believing in STS, for following God’s will.  Thank you Mrs. Carr for all you have done for these special children – ours and all the others you have touched.  You always saw the children as individuals and knew what would help them.  What a wonderful teacher!   What an angel!  You will always be in our hearts.
 

The Ives Family

 

It is easy to think of Mrs. Carr up in Heaven, surrounded by little angels lovingly looking into her face in eager anticipation of fun things to learn!

Imagine, if you will, those little angels--time filled with special projects.......Polar Bears, Farm Animals, Penguins, Astronauts, Pilgrims, Dinosaurs, Sea Life, Letter People....the list goes on and on!  Imagine a heavenly version of Transportation Day, Grandparents’ Day, Christmas, Easter, Mother's Day, Father's Day......Mrs. Carr will be keeping those little angels hoppin! 

We have been so blessed to have Mrs. Carr in our lives. We will miss her special way of making each and everyone our children at STS feel as though they were  the most important person in world....Her loving style will be greatly missed.


 

The Bennett Family

 

As parents, one of the hardest days we all face is the day our children "leave" us for their first day of school.  For our four sons, that meant Kindergarden at St. Theresa Catholic School.  We are extremely grateful for the solid foundation in Faith, Hope and Love each of our children received at St. Theresa from every teacher.  For Johnpaul and Christopher, this began in Marie Carr's kindergarden classroom.  We nearly lost Christopher at birth in 1990 and he spent 47 days in NICU, and came very close to death several times during his first few days of life outside the womb.   Marie knew about Christopher's early life struggles and always gave him the "extra" attention and help he needed.  She treated each child as a unique gift from God. 

As parents, our favorite memory of Marie was at back to school night, seeing the expression on her face and her eyes light up when the parents came into her classroom to see all of the wonderful things that were happening in this special place called kindergarden.  Seeing dads and moms sitting in those very tiny kindergarden chairs always reminds us of the words of Jesus, that in order to enter the Kingdom of Heaven, you must "become like a child".  Marie Carr welcomed all of our children in His Name, and made everyone of us feel like children of God, regardless of age or ability to fit in those tiny seats.

By your fruits you will be known, and that is especially true of Marie's own dear children and beloved husband...each giving, sharing and leading in this Christian community of St. Theresa  in so many different and unique ways over the years.  Marie, Jack and family have always been a great inspiration and example for our family for many years here at St. Theresa.  Perhaps no more so than in these difficult moments.

In the movie, Field of Dreams,  John Kinsella asks Ray (his son) about the "field".  He asks, "Is this heaven?"  "It's Iowa." "Iowa?  I could have sworn this was heaven."  Ray asks, "Is there a heaven?"  John says, "Oh yeah! It's the place where dreams come true."  Ray concludes, "Maybe this is heaven".    Just like the movie, kindergarden is our children's first little field of dreams, their special "heaven on earth", where they "meet God", learn more about His "family" of Saint Theresa, and where their "dreams" and ours for them begin to come true.   Jesus was present in and worked through Marie Carr.  The best memorial we can think to give her is to live our lives in the same Christlike,  self-giving way that she lived her life.  The heavenly Communion of Saints is richer with Marie Carr there now.  Marie, Pray for Us.
 

The Hepp Family

 

We extend our deepest sympathies to the Carr family.  Mrs. Carr was such a wonderful person.  She knew all of the students by name and gave our youngest the perfect foundation for her education.  I will never forget how kind Mrs. Carr was to Rachel when she had cut her own bangs off at the roots!  (And right before "picture day" at school, too!)   Mrs. Carr made Rachel feel like she had the talent to be a famous beautician someday!   This all happened after kindergarten, and Mrs. Carr still not only remembered Rachel, but took the time to make her feel special.  Angels are everywhere, especially Mrs. Carr.  We loved her so--she will truly be missed.
 

The Diorio Family

 

As a parent and former teacher at STS, the children and I were blessed to have Mrs. Carr as a part of our lives.  She was such a positive influence on my children, and a blessing for me while at the Day Care.  Jake, my oldest son, always said no matter when he saw Mrs. Carr, she would stop what she was doing to talk, give him a hug and a smile.  Jake said she always "made his day".

When I told my children of Mrs. Carr's passing they were so upset.  I explained that God need a Kindergarten teacher in heaven to help him with the children.  We spoke about how wonderful Mrs. Carr was, and how lucky the children would be to have her.  My youngest son Noah said in tears, "Mommy you're right, because nobody teaches Cotton Candy C and Kicking K like Mrs. Carr.  They are going to love her!"

God Bless you Mrs. Carr, we all loved you!

 

Mrs. Carr by Cara Toniola, 6B

 

Mrs. Carr was a loving heart

who did good things from the start.

She helped US mend our broken hearts.

She will be dearly missed

and we miss her with bliss.

 

I wish she could have stayed at lest one more day....

and we would not have to wipe the tears away.

So, Mrs. Carr, you're up in heaven, but in your students and teachers, you are in our minds and hearts.

 

Cara Toniola - 6B and the Toniola Family

 

It has been about one month now since Mrs. Carr has passed away.  When I entered kindergarten I was afraid because I thought I might get a mean teacher or have very hard things to learn.  But it was so different.  It was fun!  We got to do animal projects, letter people, field trips and 5th grade buddies.  I really loved Mrs. Carr.  Today I still look at my memory book I got 6 years ago and look back at all the fun I had.  Yesterday when we had a balloon lunch, it was amazing.  I saw Miss Carr, it looked like it was hard for her to let her balloon go.  We all knew Mrs. Carr had loved balloons.  And before I left school, my friend said, "Just think, Mrs. Carr might be getting my yellow and your white balloon....right now...in heaven."

 

It is a blessing Mrs. Carr taught me at STS.

 
 
 
 

 

 
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